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Six years ago this month, MTV entered the modern romantic dating television genre with Are You The One?, a show which mixed the channel's signature formula for reality success with love, money and romance -- something it has done now for eight seasons. Last year, the series opened its arms to the LGBT community with Come One, Come All, and it was just last week that the sexually-fluid season that recieved much attention from both the gay & lesbian community and the mainstream media was nominated for a GLAAD Media Award in the reality TV category. And the show's success have seen some of its 160+ alumni cross over to the U.S. version of global franchise Ex On The Beach and its long-standing competition series, The Challenge, among other MTV shows.
When AYTO debuted in 2014, it was the same year that two of MTV's most beloved personalities were taken from us much too soon. In a span of only thirteen days that autumn, Challenge legend Diem Brown lost her battle with ovarian cancer, then on Thanksgiving fellow competitor and Real World Back to New Orleans alum Ryan Knight was found dead -- both coming before their last season together on Battle of the Exes 2. The outpouring of sorrow from fellow alumni and the fandom that month was overwhelming and spoke to the power of TV that allowed fans who followed them to that last season in South America to join in the grief of a month none of us have ever forgotten... it's almost as if we lost someone we actually knew, even it was only through TV and social media.
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From when news of it spread from her home of West Virginia to now, the past seven days have afforded ample time for family, friends and castmates to offer their remembrances of a lady who was taken away from us so soon... one who was one of AYTO's most vibrant and joyous personalities who always made everyone laugh and smile whenever she walked into any room. But Alexis Eddy was more than just that one who had a zest for life: she had a startling backstory involving something that's now become commonplace in mainstream media of true crime, and one who had become open in sharing her personal battles with drugs and addiction and the always tough task of staying sober.
Just as it was during that most surreal month of November 2014, it's always a tough thing for us at DCBLOG to represent the fandom who watches these shows as a voice of reason to say farewell in what is always a most difficult and poignant to compose, both logistically and on an emotional level as one who has followed Are You The One from day 1 and has become good friends with a lot of its alumni - including Alexis herself a few times. But here, we hope to paint as good a brief portrait of her life and the magical time she was on our screens, as we offer this one final and lasting tribute to this energetic & memorable lady of one that friends, family and her castmates knew simply as Lexi.







