Sunday, November 16, 2014

A DC SocialPulse Special: Remembering Diem Brown

This article was originally posted on Nov. 16, 2014, before 
the season launch of The Challenge: Battle of the Exes 2.

*** Advisory: this DC SocialPulse post contains some
brief adult language. Please read with discretion. ***

By DC Cueva

@DC408Dxtr/@DC408DxNow

Hello and welcome to this Special Edition of DC SocialPulse with me, DC Cueva. It's with a heavy heart and a sense of sadness that we bring you this post as we celebrate the life of a brave and inspirational member of the MTV family who touched so many beyond the channel's airwaves.
   Diem Brown, seven-time competitor on The Challenge, passed away at the age of 32 Friday morning at 10:32 AM ET - the same exact time she was born back on June 12, 1982, surrounded by family and friends in New York City after battling ovarian cancer for a third time and losing after two previously successful bouts against it. Words simply cannot express how all of us, both the entire MTV community and viewers & fans such as myself who got to know and watch Diem Brown over the years, have been feeling over the course of this weekend.
   Diem made her MTV debut in 2006 on The Challenge: Fresh Meat as the energetic and courageous "army brat" from the northern Atlanta suburb of Roswell, GA, who joined what was then a Real World vs. Road Rules team competition as a brand-new competitor who didn't appear on either show. It was there that she first revealed, on-camera, that she had ovarian cancer, and over the years her cancer battle was well-documented, both on the show and outside of The Challenge house. The first two times, both after Fresh Meat and then after six years later on Battle of the Exes, she went into chemotherapy, fought back and won both times. For this third time, though, the cancer that was found in her stomach and colon when she was flown home from being overseas in August would ultimately spread to her live and lymph nodes. And though she would lose this fight after numerous surgeries and treatment, she certainly fought right to the very end.
   Off-camera during her eight-year battle, Diem became both an advocate and an inspiration for those who can relate to her as someone who has fought a brave battle, which inspired her to found the support registry site MedGift. Today, with its many support pages and resources being offered to those going through any medical or health experience and how to deal with it in any way possible, that site has become the legacy she leaves behind. She also served as an ambassador for Stand Up to Cancer, the entertainment industry's cancer awareness initiative and attended its 2012 edition.

Coming up here, we'll showcase tweets and posts from, of course, the entire MTV family plus fans as they offer reflection and memories of Diem. And after all that, I'll offer my perspective on her, the career she had on The Challenge, the impact of both her and her passing, and how it runs parallel to another event that touched the MTV community twenty years ago. And at the end of this article, we'll invite you the opportunity to share your thoughts and reflections.

Join DCBLOG after the jump as we remember Diem Brown.


> MTV Reacts, Diem's Close Friend and Diem's Last Tweets
First, here's the official statements from MTV and the producers of The Challenge and Real World, Bunim/Murray Productions, along with an organization Diem was proud to represent as one of its ambassadors, Stand Up To Cancer. Also included is a tweet from one of her close friends who was in the hospital room during her last days, check out her twitter handle for more. And at the end of this first section is the very last tweets Diem would post on her twitter hub, two days before her passing.

"No matter the obstacle, Diem Brown was committed to living life to the fullest, and we're forever grateful that she shared her life with us. On behalf of her Challenge family and everyone at Bunim/Murray, we thank Diem for being a fighter in the truest sense and an inspiration to many. Our thoughts are with her loved ones."
- Jonathan Murray, BMP Chairman and Executive Producer (@BunimMurray)

"MTV is tremendously sad to hear the news that Diem Brown has lost her long battle with cancer. We send our deepest condolences to her family and friends. Diem was a true fighter and brought passion to everything she touched. We will miss her."
- MTV (@MTV)

"We are deeply saddened by the passing of #SU2C ambassador @DiemBrownMTV. She will continue to inspire everyone @ SU2C."
- Stand Up to Cancer (@SU2C), www.standup2cancer.org

". @diembrown I've always told you, you are my earth angel. Now, you are our heavinly angel. I see you dancing in heaven with your mother and grandmother. I promise to live the best life possible for both of us. Thank you for teaching me grace, faith, tenacity and for the gift of Medgift.com You and I will never end. You are my true, dear love."
- Alicia Quarles (@alicialquarles), E! NEWS and Diem's Close Friend - on Instagram

"I NEED PRAyErs and advice my doctors are seemingly giving up but I won't & can't rollover. Whatever option I have to LIVE I'm grabbing!"
"Need prayers, advice, support & outreach. No is not an option. Contact @alicialquarles We know there is hope & help"
- the last tweets by Diem Brown at @DiemBrownMTV, sent out at 2:18 PM ET on November 11, three days before her passing


The MTV Family Remembers Diem
Now, the reaction from the MTV family from after Diem's passing, and this will take a while. And unlike the usual DCSP posts where we show episode interaction and multiple tweets from all cast members, this one is presented one-by-one from each & every member from the Real World & Challenge community who have a social media presence and other MTV shows. This is their posts from their twitter, Instagram and Facebook accounts, and in some cases feature a combination of them. We begin with the ones in The Challenge/Real World family who were closest to her.

"You have always been My Angel. And now you have your wings. We've been thru so much over the years. Thru the ups and downs we somehow managed to keep our promise. We never gave up on each other. Our plan to be together forever hasn't changed... it's just going to take a little longer now. And I'm going to hold onto this ring for you till we are together again. So don't worry mama, I'm not afraid. I know you will always be with me to give me your strength. You are The Love of My Life. My reason to be a better man. I Love You Always and Forever"
Chris "CT" Tamburello, (@TheOfficial_CT) - Diem's boyfriend and competed with her on several Challenges, on IG on 11/19/14 and sharing a picture of her, a necklace and a promise ring taken from her funeral the previous day in New York (http://instagram.com/p/vlrAYmNTA5/)

"Hello everyone, My family, and I, want to thank you all from the bottom of our hearts for all the love and kind words you all have shown me during the hardest time of my life. I honestly did not expect to receive so much support. I am going to take some time for myself. And before I go, I thought it was appropriate to let everyone know that you are all appreciated. Thank you so very much!"
- @TheOfficial_CT - CT's 2nd Instagram post on 11/20/14, with a picture of him and his family and him holding a bouquet of flowers outside a NYC hotel (http://instagram.com/p/voCgkotTId)

IG: "From shock and tears.... to smiles. This is @diembrown This is off the show...Straight pure dancing happiness and full of life. THIS is the Diem i know. There is no "losing the fight" or "losing the battle" to cancer. Please dont ever think or say that. She has done nothing but WIN with her life. She is an angel put here for us to teach us lessons. Diem has inspired strength to those who felt weak. She has reached out a hand to those who felt alone. She created MEDGIFT and left a beautiful legacy through her passion for helping others. She has shown all of us how to come together in prayer and love. What she has left us is the biggest gift in the world. We are sad because this heart of life got taken away from us too soon.... But we should celebrate what she has done. Celebrate her life. Be thankful for what she has taught us through her struggles. Know that life and health are never guaranteed. Tell those close to you that you love them. Be thankful for all the little things. Diems life, struggles, and death all had a purpose. Take everything she has taught you and be a better person for it. Prayers to her family. Diem is truly dancing with the stars now. All my love. Thank you Diem for reaching out to a lonely weirdo for a thanksgiving meal all those years ago. You changed my life more than you could ever know. I will pass along your kindness in your honor. Love you. You are and always will be a Warrior."
TW: "There is no "losing the fight" or "losing the battle" to cancer. @DiemBrownMTV went left us as a VICTOR. Her life had purpose. #diemstrong"
- Cara Maria Sorbello, (@CaraMariaMTV) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes and Rivals II, first post on IG and sharing footage from one of Diem's videos, www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8tw7yg6WEQ; 2nd post from Twitter

"My beautiful friend. @DiemBrownMTV I will be forever grateful for all the amazing moments I got to share w/ you. We all love Diem very much &as hard as today is, let's not forget to pray for her family & friends who remain & need strength. I LOVE YOU D. Let's make @DiemBrownMTV's dream come true. Spread the word. Donate. Make a difference like she did. @MedGift #RIPDiemBrown #DiemStrong"
"We all love Diem very much &as hard as today is, let's not forget to pray for her family & friends who remain & need strength. This wkd, in honor of #DiemBrown-find reasons 2smile instead of complain, say I love you more than you usually do & make an excuse to dance✨ #RIPDiemBrown"
Camila Nakagawa, (@CamilaMTV) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes and Rivals II

"Heaven got another angel today @DiemBrownMTV ...doesn't make it hurt any less...love you miss you my friend more than words can say...RIP. Here's to the girl that danced like nobody was watching...even though everyone was. Here's to the girl that fights to the impossible end. Here's to the girl who stole all our hearts and we gladly let her. Here's to the girl I will miss for the rest of my life. Thank you for all the memories Diem. Thank you for blessing me with your friendship. Thank you for always showing my the kind of woman I want to be. #dieminthepm #medgift #rip #downtowndiembrown #love "I believe death is only a door. When it closes, another opens. If I cared to imagine a heaven, I would imagine a door opening and behind it I would find you there" 
Paula Beckert, (@PaulaWalnutsMTV) - competed with Diem on multiple Challenges, on IG

"My dearest Diem- we should feel so honored to have known you, to have loved you and to watch you do amazing things year after year. You are and will continue to be an inspiration. Your smile lit up the room. You believed in me when I didn't have the courage. You loved me regardless of my moodiness. You made me better. You fought a crazy battle. Your strength is unmeasurable. I love you so much. I miss you already. I'm still in shock. I know you'll be smiling down on me as well as all who love you. You will continue to change the lives of people. I'm so blessed to have known you. You will forever be my friend, forever be in my thoughts, forever. I know you're up there hair flipping away. Rest in peace my sweet angel. #flipagram"
Aneesa Ferreira, (@AneesaMTV) - Diem's partner on Rivals II and competed on several Callenges with her, on Flipagram

". @diembrownmtv you were the kindest person I know with a heart and soul that would light up any room! Words can't describe how much you meant to me and how much I will miss you. #RIP #myangel"
- Ashley Kelsey, (@AshleyMarieMTV) - RW San Diego II, Challenge BOTS2 & Diem's close friend

"Today we all lost a dear friend. Diem was one of those who captured all our hearts - gone to soon, but with purpose and meaning her legacy will #liveon #diem #weloveyou"
Rachel Robinson, (@rachel_fitness) - competed on several Challenges with Diem

"She is clothed in strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future. -Proverbs 31:25   Rest in peace my sweet Diem"

Johnny Devenanzio, aka "Johnny Bananas" (@MTVBananas) - competed with Diem on three challenges

"To #diemstrong @diembrownmtv, you will always be dancing in my mind & in my heart. I love u, & I know u have peace"

Sarah Rice, (@SarahRiceMTV) - competed with Diem on three challenges

"This is how I will always remember her. Overdressed. Smiling. With a drink in her hand.. She was so special. And changed so many lives.. My heart hurts bc the heartbeat of our family has left us. I will never understand why people who have so much to share with the world are the ones taken too soon. Dance away angel. We love you @DiemBrownMTV."
- Jemmye Carroll (@JustJem24) - competed with Diem on The Challenge: Rivals II, on TW/IG

"R.I.P. Diem Brown.. Such an amazing person and I'm glad we were able to start our careers on Fresh Meat I together.  You were always smiling. One thing about Diem is that she was goal oriented & always created her own path! She loved to dance &was a pleasure to be around."
- Eric Banks, aka "Big Easy" (@EricBanks) - competed with Diem on Fresh Meat and Gauntlet III

"I can't believe something so terrible has happened to someone so pure and perfect. @DiemBrownMTV was an angel and gift to this world. @DiemBrownMTV touched my life so deeply the first time we met. She opened her arms and took me under her wing, no questions asked. I've never met a more loving and giving person than @DiemBrownMTV this is such divesting news I don't want to believe๐Ÿ’” love you Sunshine ☀️"
Jessica McCain (@MTVJess) - competed with Diem on The Challenge: Rivals II

"This is how I will always remember @diembrown full of spunk and fight. Heaven just got a very special gift! And those who knew her on earth were lucky. My heart is heavy today. God Bless you Diem๐Ÿ‘ผ๐Ÿ‘ผ๐Ÿ‘ผ"
Mark Long (@TheMarkLong) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes

"Heaven gained an Angel today. Part of me is not sad bc I know without a doubt where Diem is now but the other part knows that the world benefited from being in it. I have meet a lot of people in my life but there was something about her spirit I loved. She was one of the best people I had the chance to have in my life even if it was only for brief periods of time. Her gift was here soul I knew it the moment I met her and I don't always in fact never meet someone like that. Diem you made this world a better place but I know there is a huge party in heaven bc one of their Angels has returned. I love you and thank you for being that bright light that I will truly miss."
Robin Hibbard (@RobinMTV14) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes

"It's very sad to hear about @DiemBrownMTV's passing. I believe in a heaven and I have no doubt she was received lovingly on the other end."
"I met @DiemBrown in 2009, while filming with @mtv in Phuket. She and I were eliminated from the show on the same evening, and with fortuitous flight booking issues, were able to spend a few more days together in that beautiful place. These are some photos from the last night I ever saw her. The sunset was absolutely brilliant. She was truly a sweetheart. I am happy to have known her on this earth and shall be pleased to say hello on the other side, one day.
   The poem, below, perfectly describes @diembrown, with its appropriate title, The Champion (author unknown) "The average runner sprints until the breath in him is gone, but the Champion has the iron will that makes him carry on. For rest, the average runner begs when limp his muscles grow, but the Champion runs on leaden legs, his spirit makes him go. The average man's complacent when he does his best to score, but the Champion does his best and then he does a little more.'"
Chet Cannon (@Chet_Cannon) - competed with Diem on The Ruins, on TW/IG

"@DiemBrownMTV I am thinking of you so much. You are such a warrior. Strong, beautiful, and amazing. Sending all the love. Keep fighting."
"I am in such shock. We all are. Diem. I love you. Nobody can rock pink hair like you. Nobody will say "baby girl" quite like you do. Nobody can walk (dance) into a room and own it in that Diem way. I am so lucky you came into my life. Thank you for being so brave and for always smiling. You are beautiful in every way."
Emily Schromm (@EmFitMTV) - competed with Diem on Rivals II, on TW/IG

"Diem was actually afraid a lot on The Challenge. Afraid of heights, of taking her wig off, of going into the gauntlet…But she was never afraid of cancer and she kicked its ass for a long time."
- Evan Starkman (@TheEvanStarkman), competed with Diem on three Challenges, as told to Us Weekly (@USWeekly) at her funeral

"Since day one, Diem was always a sweetheart! My prayers are with her and her family." 
- Kenny Santucci (@KennySantucci), competed with Diem on three Challenges, as told to Us Weekly (@USWeekly) at her funeral

"A real beautiful soul- Big love to Diem, you will be missed & glad we got to meet. I cried in joy when she told me stories of her life, and cried when she left- celebrate life while we are lucky enough to have it:)"
- Abram Boise (@AbramBoise) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes, on IG

"@diembrownMTV was the first person to say hi to me when I entered the DUEL 2 house. The first thing you notice about her is her smile and that shes one of those rare people who just seem pure and beautifully innocent from one glance. I have to admit the thought crossed my mind that she was just "playing the game" as they say, or gaining alliances.. The 6 years I have known her since proved that passing thought wrong a million times over. She had her own foundations to support but when @cohuttalee and I wanted to do some socially responsible work for ALS she was the first to call back and help however she could, she checked up regularly to see how we were doing and offered every contact and word of advice she could. This next part is as serious as I have ever been about anything on social media: Diem is and always will be an inspiration to me on how to work hard in the face of seemingly impossible goals, how to spend your words, work, and life on happiness and happiness only works when everyone around you gets a taste, and as for that genuine little light of purity and beauty I felt emulating from her eyes when she smiled..... Well I still haven't got a clue how to do that one! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜”"
Isaac Stout (@SometimesISAAC) - competed with Diem on Duel II, on IG

"OMG I can't believe she's gone. I'm in disbelief. This is devastating news. She was always so funny and kind, so strong and inspiring. Prayers for Diem Brown and her family, friends and all the lives touched. You will always be a light that shines above us now, as you did when you shined across us. Can't believe you left us so soon. #ChallengeFamily #DieminthePM"
Ruthie Alcaide (@RuthieAlcaide) - competed with Diem on The Duel II, on Facebook and IG

"Diem and I have done a lot of crazy stuff together. We've been across the world together. She's my sister. Today our family stands united in our love and respect for this role model. I really miss my MTV family right now. Stay strong. Call me if you need anything. We love and respect you Diem; you'll be with us forever."
- Wes Bergmann (@WestonBergmann) - competed with Diem on several Challenges, recently on Exes

"@DiemBrownMTV I love you Diem. So much. I'll think about you dancing every day."
Coral Smith (@ThatCoral) - multiple Challenge participant

"Feeling absolutely sick to just hear we lost our beloved friend @DiemBrownMTV last night. You will be loved and missed forever."

"My favorite @DiemBrownMTV memory is prob sharing the "Oh sh*t we are going in the day b4 the final" feeling in Duel 2. @DiemBrownMTV fought production to get @ToriFiorenza and I alone time on my B-day during Duel 2.  Always the best friend you could ask for!#DiemStrong #DiemBrown"
Brad Fiorenza (@BradFiorenza) - multiple Challenge participant; 2nd post his memories from day of her funeral

"My sweet friend @DiemBrownMTV, this world lost a beautiful soul,I know you are dancing with your mama, pain free. #missyou #heartbroken"

Tori Fiorenza (@ToriFiorenza) - multiple Challenge participant

"My heart hurts to hear that a dear friend and the sweetest most beautiful person inside and out has passed. Nobody knows the bond of how close we all are from doing these challenges, petty shit behind us, we're all 1 big hurt family now #ripdiem #loveyaDiem @DiemBrownMTV"
"In honor of @DiemBrownMTV when you hear that song tonight that makes you want to dance. Dance your heart out for Diem."
- Ryan Knight (@Knight_MTV) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"It doesn't sound right to hear or say Diem died. Because all I can think about is how she lived... every day and every moment. #LoveYouDiem"

"๐Ÿ˜ช Dance, girl. #DiemBrown"
Laurel Stucky (@ZachMTV) - four-time Challenge participant and Free Agents champion

"Diem Brown was a beautiful soul and loved life to the fullest! She was the kind of girl that could light up any room she walked in. I will never forget the moments we had together and the laughs we shared I am truly shaken by the news of her death. May you rest in piece "Diieeeem we will miss you"
Dustin Zito (@DustinZito) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes

"Such a sad day... #RIPDiemBrown You will never be forgotten"
Nany Gonzalez (@NanyMTV) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"Words cannot express what @DiemBrownMTV meant to all of us on the challenge. My prayers go out to her family and loved ones."
Zach Nichols (@ZachMTV) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"@DiemBrownMTV has sadly passed away! Diem you will be truly missed I'm grateful I had the opportunity to have you in my life as a friend!! Beautiful inside and out! true angel always!! she will always dance in our hearts! #RIPDiemBrown"
Jasmine Reynaud (@JazMTV) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes and Rivals II

"@DiemBrownMTV Thank you for the smiles and hugs all throughout the time we had together. Enjoy the view from up there. You are missed."
Frank Sweeney (@FrankCSweeney) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"My heart is broken. @DiemBrownMTV was such a beautiful person inside and out. Her strength and determination is to be admired by many. She gave me a beautiful chandelier as a wedding gift that's in my master bathroom. Very fitting as she really did light up a room. #RIPDiem"
Katie Cooney (@KatieCooley26) - competed with Diem on The Ruins

"A lot of people say "live life to the fullest." Diem did. Some people leave behind lots of assets. Money. Big houses. Expensive cars. Diem left #medgift.com . The selflessness of that idea and the work she put into it is so humbling I don't really have the words. Diem my dear you are an example. Get out there and live in this world people. Help each other. If you need a little inspiration... see above photo. http://instagram.com/p/vZvsaONKOy/"

Cohutta Grindstaff (@CohuttaMTV) - competed with Diem on The Ruins, on IG

"Damn. I love you Diem. I'm hurt that you were called home, but happy your no longer in pain. One of the best."
Tyrie Brown (@JamieChung1) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes and Rivals II

"RIP to one of the most beautiful souls I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. My heart is broken. The world lost an amazing human being."
Heather Marter (@HeatherMarter) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes

"Words cannot express how bad my heart hurts today. I have no idea what to say. The only thing that comes to mind is "thank you" - for the memories, for the friendship and for everything that you stood for. We will always love you, Diem. You will never be forgotten and I know I will see you again someday, and I promise we will dance the night away just like you loved to do. Rest easy, beautiful woman. You left one remarkable impression on this place. Thank you for everything, @DiemBrownMTV. I will forever cherish our memories. I love you"
Trey Weatherholtz (@MTVTrey) - competed with Diem on The Challenge: Rivals II, on FB/TW

"I am so sad to hear that our challenge queen passed away last night.You will forever be in our hearts. RIP @DiemBrownMTV"
Jonna Mannion (@JonnaMTV) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"We lost someone truly special today. She was such an inspiration to so many and words can't describe how lucky I feel to have gotten to meet and know her. So much positivity and so much strength, you touched so many lives. I feel truly blessed to have gotten the chance to meet such a beautiful person. Thoughts and prayers with @DiemBrownMTV 's family. Rest in peace, D."
Robb Schreiber (@robb_schreiber) - competed with Diem on Rivals II, on TW/IG

"Still can't believe it. Today we lost a wonderful person to that horrible beast called cancer. Thoughts to Diem Brown and her family. Diem was always an inspiration and a beauty inside and out. My heart breaks to know she has left our world. ๐Ÿ˜ฃ #fcancer"
Heather Cooke (@IamHeatherCooke) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"You will always be remembered as a fighter @DiemBrownMTV you will be missed."
Marlon Williams, aka "Jay Dillinger" (@TheJayDillinger) - competed with Rivals II

"Words can't express. So fast and so young. You will be missed @DiemBrownMTV #RIPDiem #curecancer"
Trishelle Cannatella (@TrishelleC) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"The world lost a wonderful, inspiring, brave soul this morning. All of the love and care in my heart goes out to you @DiemBrownMTV."
Jordan Wiseley (@JordanW_usa) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"Words can not express the amount of sadness and grief I feel in my heart. When people are taken away too soon. Rest in peace Diem. You will truly be missed but always remembered"
Jamie Chung (@JamieChung1), RW San Diego ('04)

"RIP sweet angel @DiemBrown who passed away from her battle with #cancer this morning. She was a sweet girl who taught me this life lesson on a speech we gave together: "When you have a dream to do something in your life, find someone who has accomplished that dream, interview them, find out what they did to get there, and go do it yourself." Diem dreamed of being a host/anchor and her role model was @KatieCouric. Anyone who followed Diem's story will know she accomplished so much in her lifetime, founding #MedGift and sharing her story with the world. RIP #DiemBrown"
Davis Mallory (@DavisMallory) - competed with Diem on Duel II, on IG

"RIP beautiful Diem. You left a huge impact on this Earth and will never be forgotten. I know you are dancing"
Cameran Eubanks (@CameranEubanks), RW San Diego ('04) and Bravo's Southern Charm

"Such a sad day.. To the first time I met this lovely lady.. I'll always remember her smiling adn dancing @DiemBrown. . Rest in paradise baby girl.. we're gonna miss you so much.."
Derek Chavez (@MTVDerek) - competed with Diem on Rivals II, on TW/IG

"I cannot believe the news @DiemBrownMTV was an amazing person so young so sweet and always soo positive I literally can't deal :( Rest In Peace Diem Heaven Just Gained A Beautiful Angel ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ‘ผ"
Naomi Defensor (@NaomiMTV) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes and Rivals II


"I can't believe this news? Sometimes the world seems so cruel! #RIPDiemBrown you will be missed!!! When my time comes an pass I too hope that I will be remembered as a gentle, giving, & caring person just like @DiemBrownMTV"
- Preston Charles (@PrestoMagicmtv) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"We lost one of the bravest and most beautiful souls today. Diem will be missed dearly. Anyone that knew her knows she's teaching the Angels how to hair flip and high kick right now. Rest in Peace Diem."
- Mandi Moyer (@mandimoyer) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes

"@DiemBrownMTV #RIP we love u babe"
Syrus Yarborough (@SyrusMTV) - multiple Challenge participant

"Sad day..u were a fighter & a lover! U will be missed more then u know @DiemBrownMTV! Thank u for shining your beautiful light in my life!"
Melinda Stolp (@MelindaStolp) - 4-time Challenge participant 

"Rest peacefully young lady for your struggle is over and your pain is no more. Thank you for making this world a better place RIP Diem Brown"
Nate Stodhill (@SyrusMTV) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes

"will love you always & forever๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ‘‘"
Theresa Gonzalez (@TheresaTime20) - competed with Diem on Rivals II

"Heaven got Another angel today...RIP sis. ๐Ÿ˜ณ #mtv #diembrown #diem mtv"
Nick Brown (@NickBrownOnline) - competed with Diem on The Duel II

"#RIPDiemBrown May you rest at peace with your mama. We will miss you."
Susie Meister (@susie_meister) - competed with Diem on several Challenges

"@DiemBrownMTV Forever & Always.... The best dance partner I'll ever have. #DanceForDiem #ANewAngelinHeaven"
Tyler Duckworth (@TylerDuckMTV) - multiple Challenge participant

"My friend, my sister. A woman with an infectious spirit. A woman who was a fighter! A beautiful woman who lit up every room she stepped into you. If you were lucky enough to know this woman you know how hard losing her is. ITB ❤️ @diembrown"
- Brittani London (@BritLondon) - competed with Diem on Duel II, on IG

"Only the good die young! If you know her take the time out to have a dance off and celebrate being alive. No single person has made me feel happier and more free. You will be forever missed #shakeitoff #downtowndiembrown"
- Ty Ruff (@the_ty_ruff) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes and Rivals II, on IG

"There are no words. My heart hurts. My Beautiful SoulSista, Diem Brown, has joined another dance company-- one of Angels. I don't even know what to write. I'm just so sad."
- Ibis Del Mar (@IbisDelMar) - competed with Diem on The Ruins

"With the exception of a prank phone call she gave me back in 2007 I did not ever speak with @DiemBrownMTV but a fighter she will be forever!"
- Dan Walsh (@DanWalsh83) - two-time Challenge participant

"RIP Diem Brown. You will be missed greatly. We were all better people to have known you. @DiemBrownMTV #missmyfriend"
- Adam King (@AdamKingMTV) - participated with Diem on The Duel II

"Rest in peace Diem. You are an inspiration to us all."

- Ryan Kehoe (IG @RyanKehoe5) - competed with Diem on Duel II and Gauntlet III


"Hearing this morning about the loss of #DiemBrown hurt my heart. Though we are 1 big dysfunctional MTV family, we will always be a family uniquely bonded together. Prayers & deepest condolences go out to Diem's closet loved ones at this time. Rest in peace."
- Brooke LaBarbara (@BDoll82) - competed with Diem on Duel II, on IG

"Fighter til the end!"
- Leroy Garrett (@RoyLee25MTV) - competed with Diem on Battle of the Exes and Rivals II, on Facebook sharing MTV's tribute video

"I just tried to find words and i couldn't.  Heartbreaking. #RIPDiemBrown"
- Theo Von (@TheoVon) - host of TBS' Deal With It and competed with Diem on Fresh Meat


"I just found out about the passing of my RW/ RR family member #DiemBrown she was a true fighter & inspiration for all she will be missed RIP"
- Mike "The Miz" (@mikethemiz) - former Challenger and 12-time WWE Champion

"We text each other a few secrets. We drunk dialed a few times but we never actually met in person. It's crazy when I think of that because I've shared things with you that I haven't with close friends. We leaned on each other at one point in life for a few months and I thank you for that. Heaven got a beautiful soul today. RIP Diem"
- Ashlee Feldman (@AshleeFeldman), Real World Back to NOLA and Host at JAM'N 94.5/Boston

"@DiemBrownMTV That's the spirit! Meditate on being healthy. Alkalise your body as much as possible to slow the spread & keep your faith! xox"

- Sharon Gitau (@sharongitau), Real World London - tweeted prior to Diem's death on Nov. 13

"Very sad to hear about fellow RW/RR alum Diem Brown's passing. She put up a hell of a fight and did it with grace and dignity."

Amaya Brecher (@amayasays), Real World Hawaii and Challenge 2K

"#ripdiembrown"
Brandon Nelson (@BrandonDNelson), five-time Challenge participant

"Diem Brown was truly one of the strongest, most beautiful souls I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. Rest In Peace, you angel."

Trisha Cummings (@Trisha_Cummings), Real World Sydney

"I will remember @diembrown always smiling, loving to dance, always making people laugh. Heaven received an Angel. ๐Ÿ’” "
CJ Koegel (@CJKoegel) - Real World Cancun, Fresh Meat II and BOTS2

"Diem thank you for every time you lifted us all up and made us smile.. I know you're dancing among angels now ❤️ RIP beautiful girl."
- Emilee Fitzpatrick (@IWantMyEmTV) - Real World Cancun, Cutthroat and Free Agents


"The world lost an incredible fighter. There are few souls on this planet like Diem. Thinking of my mtv family today and this incredible loss. #ripdiembrown ❤️"
- Baya Voce (@Baya_Voce), Real World Brooklyn

"You shall be missed amongst all of us you beautiful angel! RIP Diem Brown ;( You fought a strong fight and you were a hero and friend to all of us! I will always love you!"
JD Ordonez (@JDOrdonez) - Real World Brooklyn, Cutthroat and BOTS2, on FB

"Speechless.Can't believe such a kind angel was taken so soon. @MTV, The Challenges, & the world in general will never be the same. #RIPDiem"
Devyn Simone (@DevynSimone) - Real World Brooklyn, BOTS2 and Free Agents

"I barely knew @DiemBrownMTV, but the few times I met her, she had a smile and energy that filled the room. May angels lead her in."
Mike Ross (@MikeRossMTV), Real World Back to Las Vegas and Challenge: Rivals

"Words can't express the amount of pain my heart feels for Diem. I love you D, heaven has truly gained a beautiful angel. #RIPDiem"
- Ayiiia Elizarraras (@Ayiiia_Eliza), Real World Cancun and Challenge: Cutthroat


"Heartbroken to hear the news ❤️ Praying for her family and friends. #RestinPeace #DiemBrown #OvarianCancerAwareness"
- McKenzie Coburn (@McKenzieCoburn), RW Back to NOLA and BOTS2 - on IG

"So very sad to hear about the passing of @DiemBrownMTV - didn't know her personally but she's MTV family!  May she rest peacefully."
- Erika Lauren (@erikalauren), Real World DC and Cleveland Radio Personality

"My heart&prayers go out to the family&friends of @DiemBrownMTV I'm sure her incredible spirit will have a place in The lords eternal kingdom."
- Brandon Swift (@BSwiftMTV), Real World St. Thomas & The Challenge: Free Agents

"My heart is so heavy this morning. @diembrown was not only a fighter and two time cancer survivor, but truly a class act and great friend. She also helped @bootybelt tremendously this year. I'm so thankful to have known her and been able to spend time with her...We are going to miss you beautiful. You are forever loved."
Nia Moore (@TheRealNiaMoore), Real World Portland & Challenge Free Agents - on IG

"Anyone that was ever blessed with @DiemBrownMTV presence knew how much she lit up a room no bigger fighter out there, my thoughts & prayers!"
Johnny Reilly (@JohnnyReilly_), Real World Portland & The Challenge: Free Agents

"RIP Diem Brown.. The whole world was praying for you and now God has taken you into his hands. You will never be forgotten #diembrown"
Joi Neimeyer (@PeaceLoveJoi), Real World Portland

"I haven't been this sad in a long time. Diem was one of the most extraordinary people I have known. Beautiful inside and out. God took someone very special. But I know she will be in good hands. Love you Diem. I'm so honored I had the chance to be apart of your world. Thank you for being my friend."
Averey Tressler (@ave_tress), Real World Portland - on Facebook

"The world lost an amazing person, But heaven gained an angel. @DiemBrownMTV you will be missed. May you rest in peace in a better place. Please keep my mom company in heaven and share some laughs I am so sick and tired of cancer taking people from me. Its just not fair. This one hits home... RIP MOM RIP DIEM"
Jay Gotti (@JayGMTV), Real World Ex-Plosion and whose mom also died from cancer during the season, which aired earlier this year

"My prayers go out to the family of @DiemBrownMTV and feel privileged to have met such a beautiful young woman. Diem Brown was an amazing woman with a very warm heart and strong will. I'll miss you girl!!"
Hailey Chivers (@HaileyChivers), Real World Ex-Plosion

"God has taken one of the most genuine people I have ever met. You will be missed Diem. Thoughts and prayers to your family and friends. RIP."
Thomas Buell (@ThomasBuellMTV), Real World Ex-Plosion

"Wish I could've met Diem, I hear she was a light in many peoples lives. Prayers and love go out to her family and friends. #RIPDiemBrown"
Jamie Larson (@JamieChinaMTV), Real World Ex-Plosion

"I didn't know you but I knew your story, my heart goes out to the family of @DiemBrownMTV and all of those close with her RIP Diem๐Ÿ™"

- Cory Wharton (@MTVCoryWharton), Real World Ex-Plosion

"#RIPDiemBrown My prayers go out to her family. @DiemBrownMTV"

Jenny Delich (@itsJennyDelich), Real World Ex-Plosion

"Absolutely horrible to hear @diembrown passed away, she was sucha cool down to earth girl and was so strong to hold on this long❤️RIP diem, my prayers go out to her family and loved ones ❤️"

Jenna Compono (@jennacompono), Real World Ex-Plosion - on IG

"Never got to meet you only watched as you touched the hearts of everyone with your http://smile.rest  in peace beautiful @DiemBrownMTV"

Nicole Zanatta (@n_zanattaMTV), Real World 30

"Rest in peace @DiemBrownMTV, she was an inspiration to anyone who is fighting cancer. the world lost a good one ❤️"
- Violetta Milerman (@VMilerman), Real World 30

"Devastated at the news that lovely @DiemBrownMTV passed away last night."
Briah Bettencourt (@VMilerman), brother of Bruno from Real World 30


"RIP @DiemBrownMTV this deeply saddens me. I didn't know you for very long but you were one of the nicest people I've ever met."
Adam Kuhn (@IamAdamKuhn), Are You The One? Season 1


"Praying for @DiemBrownMTV and others who are currently suffering from cancer."
- Ashleigh Morghan (@AshleighMorgh), Are You The One? Season 1

"Everyone. Please take a moment of silence. Today we lost a great competitor, woman, friend, and angel. Diem Brown  cancer SUCKS!!!! ‪#‎MTV‬ ‪#‎diembrown‬"
Brittany Baldi (@Brittany_Baldi), Are You The One? Season 1, on FB

"Thoughts and prayers to Diem and her family from the rest of the MTV family.  She was a beautiful caring person that will be missed."
Ethan Diamond (@EDiamond007), Are You The One? Season 1


"Rest in peace @DiemBrownMTV .. Such a fighter, my heart goes out to her friends and family. ๐Ÿ’•"
- Jessica Perez (@MTVJessicaPerez), Are You The One? Season 1

"#RIPDiemBrown #diembrown #mtv @mtv @DiemBrownMTV"
Joey Dillon (@IamJoeyDillon), Are You The One? Season 1

"RIP Diem @DiemBrownMTV"
- Paige Brendel (@PaigeBrendel), Are You The One? Season 1


"Very sad to hear about @DiemBrownMTV passing today. Sending warm thoughts and prayers to her friends and family."
- Ryan Malaty (@RyanMalaty), Are You The One? Season 1

"To wake up this morning and hear @diembrown has passed away was something I wasn't prepared for! She was so sweet, humble, yet so strong...I've never met someone who could light up a dance floor longer than me. Diem, u were amazing! She's won many battles but this was one she could no longer fight....Wow. I'm in disbelief. RIP beautiful! My condolences are sent to your family and friends."
- Simone Kelly (@SimoneJKelly), Are You The One? Season 1 - on IG

"So incredibly sad to hear about @DiemBrownMTV. What an exceptional human being. You will always be remembered. #RIPDiemBrown"
- Briana Lacuesta (@blacuesta), Are You The One? Season 2

"Wow to wake up and hear about @DiemBrownMTV is crazy man...she was a strong women...and her last name was Brown just like mines...so sad man"
Garland Brown (@Modelboi12), Are You The One? Season 2

"I feel so pitted with this news. Diem put up one hell of a fight. So many prayers out for the close friends and family of Diem Brown. RIP sweet angel. #mtvfamily"
Jenni Knapmiller (@jenniknapmiller), Are You The One? Season 2 - on IG


"You & your family are deff in my prayers, I lost my stepdad to brain cancer and I know how hard this is, RIP @DiemBrownMTV"
- Jessica Andreatta (@MTV_JESS), Are You The One? Season 2

"Cannot believe @DiemBrownMTV passed after fighting for so many years ๐Ÿ˜ข You will be missed.. I think death of cancer, or any illness really, should be a reminder to never take good health for granted & to not sweat the small stuff. #RIPDiemBrown"
Shelby Yardley (@MTVshelbs), Are You The One? Season 2

"OMG is this true about Diem passing?!? So sad, my heart and prayers go out to all her family and friends❤️#mtvfamily ๐Ÿ™"

- Snooki (@snooki), Jersey Shore

"My heart just dropped into my stomach..Diem was such a sweet and beautiful person.. I was lucky enough to get to know her and I looked up to her .. She was such a strong and inspirational women..you'll always be remembered diem ๐Ÿ’— praying for you and your loved ones rest in peace angel ๐Ÿ‘ผ may angels lead you in "
Deena Cortese (@DeenaNicoleMTV), Jersey Shore - on IG

"So Sad To Hear About @DiemBrownMTV ! So Young And Such A Great Person ! #diembrown #RIPDiem"
DJ Pauly D (@DJPaulyD), Jersey Shore

"Sad news. RIP Diem Brown ."
Vinny Guadagnino (@VINNYGUADAGNINO), Jersey Shore

"@diembrownmtv sad day for mtv rest In peace love. We will all miss u ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข "

- Angelina Pivarnick (@angelinamtvjs), Jersey Shore

"RIP Diem Brown ๐Ÿ˜”"
Kailyn Lowry (@KailLowry), Teen Mom

"I am so sad to hear about the loss of @DiemBrownMTV she was beautiful inside &out. Thoughts & prayers to her friends, family, and fans."
Carly Aquilino (@carlyaquilino), Girl Code

"Shameful that when hearing of a tragedy I find a greater appreciation to my life when we should all realize it everyday. Sad day. God bless."

- Roger Mathews (@RogerMathewsNJ), Snooki & J-Woww

"I just heard about @DiemBrownMTV Such a heart breaking end to a beautiful story. My heart goes out to her cast mates and family."
- Cara Parrish (@CaraFnParrish), Buckwild



Fans, Dignitaries and the Reality Community React
Finally, here's reaction from other reality stars, distinguished people and fans, starting with yours truly when I first found out about the news at lunchtime Pacific time, five hours after it happened:

"Words simply cannot express how all of us who got to got to know & watch her over the years are feeling right now. RIP @DiemBrownMTV."
"Quite the past couple days I've had: yesterday, celebration of #DCBday & lots of love. Today, reflection on the passing of an MTV icon."
#FF Only one this week: @MedGift, @DiemBrownMTV's charity which is her legacy to all of us to keep her memory alive: https://www.medgift.com/DiemsNextChallenge"
- @DC408dxtr

"This Is Absolutely Shocking & Devestating To Hear That @DiemBrown Passed Away. Diem Was A Very Amazingly Beautiful & Down To Earth Lady When I Met Her. She Will Surely Be Missed. I'm Blessed To Have The Opportunity To Watch Heart On TV & Of Course To Formally Meet Her In Person. My Condolences Goes Out To The MTV Fam & To Diem's Family As Well. This Is A Catastrophic Loss To The World In General. This Quote From Diem Has Stood Out To Me & It's Goes Like This: "Live Life As Hard & As Vigorously As You Can". I'll Never Forget The Day That I Met You Diem. I'll Cherish This Moment. I Hope & Pray To God That There's A Cure For Cancer Because This Shit Is No Joke At All."
- David Olmann (@BigTymers228), who met Diem at a premiere party for Jay of Real World Ex-Plosion and whose pic with her was featured in my DCSP post for EP2 of that season

"I had the honor of meeting Diem once. Even in our short conversation I could feel her spirit and energy show through. This is awful #RIPDiem"
- Brian Cohen (@busdriversroute) - MTV podcast host, who met Diem at the Rivals II Reunion

"Rip @DiemBrownMTV  life just isn't fair :/ Diem's the number one trend right now as she should be. I understand that I didn't know Diem personally and I'm sure its effecting  others who actually knew Diem more but its still effecting me. I feel for all the people who've met her and were friends with her and want all you guys and girls to know that I'm here if you need to talk. #ripdiem"
- Andrew Kirk (@CSUAKirk) - MTV podcast host, who also hosted a retrospective podcast later in the evening on BlogTalkRadio.com, link is at the bottom of the page

"Diem Brown was such an inspiration to everyone who she reached, in person or on tv. You will be missed, beautiful. Diem, you and @TheOfficial_CT showed me what love was, and just to be yourself. Never forgotten. #RIPDIEM"
- Kaitlyn Macisco (@Kmacisco), RW/Challenge fan and past DCBLOG Fan's View subject

"My thoughts and prayers are with @DiemBrownMTV's family & friends. What a strong, inspirational woman. What an important life."
- Maria Shriver (@mariashriver)

"Sending prayers to family and friends of @DiemBrownMTV. What a fighter & inspiration. U can donate to her cause at http://Medgift.com"
- Giuliana Rancic (@GiulianaRancic)

"#RIPDiem ๐Ÿ’”"
- Pia Toscano (@PiaToscano)

"Such a loss. Diem Brown bravely helped a lot of people by turning her pain into purpose. She will be missed." http://t.co/AcWbHQTI2D
- Fran Drescher (@frandrescher)

"I am rocked hearing that my sweet friend @DiemBrownMTV has passed away at just 32 years old. Such an amazing inspiring women.  #RIPDiem"
- Amy Paffrath (@amypaffrath), host of VH1's Dating Naked

"Today is an extremely tough one. We lost some one who truly knew her purpose in life and influenced thousands of people. We couldn't sit for 2 seconds at this game without someone coming up to D and telling her how much she had helped them. She always knew how to make me laugh and gave me a run for my money on the dance floor. Now she's dancing with the angels. ❤ you and miss you terribly. #RIPDiem"
- Lindsey McCormick (@LindsayM_Sports), sportscaster and Diem's friend - on IG

"One of my good friends @TheOfficial_CT lost his girlfriend @DiemBrownMTV to cancer today at age 32!  Please keep them in your prayers."
- Wes Melcher (@wesmelcher), marketing author and CT's friend

"<3 @DiemBrownMTV She was a beautiful person inside & out - a fighter in all meanings of the word - an inspiration to us all<3 Even though I didn't know @DiemBrownMTV personally, this hits hard in #TheChallenge family & it seems silly to celebrate my bday right now. #RIPDiemBrown"
- Ace Nichols (@AceNichols33), Challenge fan and vlogger and had her 30th b'day on 11/14/14

"My heart aches for the loss of @DiemBrownMTV such a strong and unbelievable fighter RIP Diem! #DiemBrown #DIEMSTRONG"
- Morgan MacAdam (@Morgan_MacAdam), RW/Challenge fan and Andrew Kirk's webcast contributor

"Very difficult to sit with the passing of #DiemBrown, life was so incredibly unfair to her and she smiled the entire time. You'll be missed."
- Jenna Marbles (@Jenna_Marbles), radio host and YouTube personality

"I met @DiemBrownMTV a few months ago, and she was so beautful inside and out. Heaven got a MAJOR UPGRADE today. We love and miss you, Diem."
- Andy Herren (@AndyHerren), Winner of Big Brother 15
"@AndyHerren @DiemBrownMTV a true sweetheart."
- Judd Daugherty (@JUDDNATION), Big Brother 15 housemate, in response to Andy

"My heart is so sad and broken right now...heaven gained an angel today @diembrown .... For the small amount of time that I've gotten to know Diem she has truly been a blessing in my life!! She will be missed by so many and was loved by everyone that knew her!! RIP sweet girl ... Please pray for her friends and family!! #MTV #RIP #beautiful #Angel #love #youwillbegreatlymissed #realityfam"
- Danielle Alexis Murphree (@DanielleAlexisM), Big Brother 14 housemate

"RIP @DiemBrownMTV This is so heartbreaking, You were such a strong and beautiful woman. Heaven gained an angel today."
- Victoria (@VictoriaRPhoto), Big Brother 16 housemate

"Waking up to this breaks my heart. RIP @DiemBrownMTV. Too soon for such a STRONG woman who fought the fight."
- Clare Crawley (@Clare_Crawley), The Bachelor Season 18

"I never met her but her battle to fight for life was inspiring. i pray for @DiemBrownMTV family, friends, and also for @theofficial_ct #RIP"
- Danni V (@IAmDanniV), Bad Girls Club

"I always admired her story and strength as she battled cancer! She was beautiful girl with a beautiful spirit! Rest in peace Diem #MTV #mtvTheChallenge #F๐Ÿ˜”CKcancer"
- Jonica Booth (@blu1x), Bad Girls Club

"And the sun rose in her eyes. Have a peaceful sleep, Diem. @DiemBrownMTV"
- Ethan Zohn (@EthanZohn), Survivor alum

"So sad to hear about the passing of @DiemBrownMTV.. She was such a fighter. May she rest in peace ๐Ÿ’—"
- Brielle Von Hugel (@BVonHugelAI11), American Idol Season 11

"Ohh my heart hurts so much hearing about Diem and reading everyone's tweets. Thinking about @theofficial_ct too. Some ppl know exactly how to take what theyre given and make the most of it..& touch the most people. It was obvious she did that. #RIPDiem"
- Elizabethany (@luvelizabethany), radio host at HOT 99.5 Washington

"This absolutely breaks my heart. #RIPDiemBrown… you were loved on #TheChallenge @afterbuzztv ur strength was unmatched"
- Roxy Striar (@roxystriar), AfterBuzz TV host for RW/Challenge after shows

"Gutted to hear about the news of #DiemBrown may she finally be at peace ❤ she showed everyone the true definition of strength. Sleep tight๐Ÿ‘ผ"
- Eric Ceballos (@EricC_Official), RW/Challenge fan and past DCBLOG Fan's View subject

"Even in her last moment, @DiemBrownMTV kneeled and served the Lord. She truly is a warrior, and an example to us all! @AshleyMarieMTV <3U"
- Stephanie Pineda (@PinedaStephanie), RW/Challenge fan

"For someone I have never meet, my heart is broken over the loss of @DiemBrownMTV. My condolences to all her friends and family. Crushing. After talking to several of her fellow Challengers, never heard a bad thing about Diem. Wish I got a chance to tell her how amazing she was."
- Tim Koskuba (@KO_Skuba), Challenge blogger and podcast host

"Prayers & Love go out to the family & friends of @DiemBrownMTV a woman whose love & fight always encouraged us all! We will miss you Diem!"
- Daniel "Shady" Sykes (@djstweetarazzi), webcast host and RW/Challenge fan

"No matter what it is, you're going to have the bad days, but if you have hope throughout, you won, no matter what the results- @DiemBrownMTV"
- Shane Battle (@Battle_S), RW/Challenge fan

"Sad to hear the news about @DiemBrownMTV she was always a joy to watch on MTV's The Challenge. Rest in peace. The fact that @DiemBrownMTV was in my favorite TV series makes it even more sad. :( My thoughts and prayers are with Diem's family and friends. #RIPDiem #CancerSucks"
- Luis Enrique (@Itslluna), RW/Challenge fan and blogger

"Her constant strength when dealing with cancer made me a fan. I would have folded up shop long ago but she was a fighter. RIP Diem."
- Steve the Steamer (@TheSteamer), RW/Challenge fan and AfterBuzz TV contributor

"Her constant strength when dealing with cancer made me a fan. I would have folded up shop long ago but she was a fighter. RIP Diem."
- Clarence Pryor (@clarencepryor), RW/Challenge fan and vlogger

"You're going to have the bad days, but if you have hope, you won no matter what" - Diem Brown #RIPDiemBrown  I'm gonna miss you @DiemBrownMTV you're strength is incredible and you touched so many lives #RIPDiemBrown FOREVER IN MY HEART."
- Kyle McCann (@TheMacDaddyK), RW/Challenge fan

"#MyHeroShesGone #AllICanDoIsCry #iKnowShesInAMuchBetterPlace #SpreadYourWingsAndFly @DiemBrownMTV #RIPDiemBrown #RIPDiem #GoneNever4Gotten"
- Dashon Walton (@RealDMWalton), RW/Challenge fan

"Just to let you guys know that Mr. @theofficial_ct is doing fine, he is sad and it's hard to say goodbye as you can all imagine, but he is optimistic about life and will continue to better himself, expect a new CT soon, stay close for more update! #thankyouforallthelove @foreverdiembrown #RIPDiemBrown #newbeginningforCT"
- Chiun-Kai Shih, CEO at TVRoptus and Conde Nast Editor, on IG @MrChunkyExpress posting update on CT from after Diem's funeral



DC's VIEW: Diem Brown - Reflection on a Warrior
As I wrote here before, it was only a couple years ago that I started to take up following MTV's The Challenge after a few years away from it, and it was just with Rivals II last year that I saw Diem for the first time. Though I had some familiarity with her, it was when I first got to really know her well in the lead-up to that season in Thailand.
   As I wrote in my cast memories post during that summer of 2013, it took until watching a mini-doc on YouTube on her charity MedGift where I saw my first footage of her from a previous Challenge. That documentary, which can be viewed here, included that moment when she told her partner, Derrick Kosinski, that she had ovarian cancer and surprised both the cast and show producers. That diagnosis took place only three weeks before beginning that Challenge and kept it a secret to just her family until that moment, and there was some uncertainty about whether she would take part or not, but ultimately decided to compete.
   After that season, she went through six months of chemotherapy and the emotionally tough process that came along with it. When she beat cancer for the first time, she then went onto The Duel in Brazil, and in a moment the MTV Show Blog calls "perhaps the most memorable moment in Challenge history" at a mission called "Ring Toss," she reluctantly took off her bandana and wig to reveal the bald head she had kept a secret to everyone. When she was finally able to compete, not only did she compete but also performed her absolute best and came out with the win. Everyone praised her for gutting it out, and all her fellow Fresh Meat alum Evan could say after seeing that was, "It was the most inspiring, beautiful moment that I've ever witnessed in my entire life. It was a straight-up inspiration to everyone." 
   It was there in Brazil that Diem would meet CT for the very first time and they clicked right from the moment they met, launching one of MTV's most-beloved relationships, though when she competed again on The Duel II in New Zealand, trust issues with CT hooking up with other girls drove them apart. She took a three-year break to launch the MedGift site and pursue entertainment reporting before returning for Battle of the Exes. She & CT renewed their love affair and became stronger than ever and they went all the way to the final. And although they would come up short in a final where they were sentimental favorites, Diem was able to make the daunting climb to the top of a mountain in speedy fashion and earned that day's top performance that was worthy of the jackpot.
   And then after that Challenge aired, her cancer returned and once again she went through the process of going into surgery, shaving her hair and the chemotherapy that had so many fans worried about her health. But of course, she would beat ovarian cancer for a second time and it was to the relief of all of her fans. It was shortly after remission that she returned to Thailand for Rivals II and renewed acquaintances with Aneesa, who had a beef with her back on The Duel. They made it all the way to the last elimination and although they would fall short, Diem had certainly become the favorite of the casual viewer who might not have known about the other people in the house. The moment at the end of episode 4 of her dancing by herself is the moment I most remember of her.
   Aside from pro wrestler Mike the Miz, Diem had more twitter followers of anyone in the Real World/Challenge community, even exceeding TJ Lavin. At the time of me posting my memories post during Rivals II, she was at 133,000 followers and in the hours since her passing, it reached 197,000 and it will sure reach 200,000 in days time. And the legacy she leaves behind is MedGift, which will also certainly garner a great amount of support in honor of Diem.

The events of what happened on Friday runs in almost exact parallel with another event that deeply touched at the heart of TV's longest-running reality franchise. Twenty years and three days before Diem's passing, the world mourned the death of Pedro Zamora, the roommate on Real World San Francisco who was diagnosed with AIDS and an advocate who inspired many in his courageous battle before passing away hours after the season finale on November 11, 1994. The passing of both people have had the same kind of impact: both battled deadly diseases, garnered a tremendous amount of public support from the wider public during their battle, and had an even-greater outpouring of compassion and sorrow when they passed away.
   If you're a member of Team MTV who might be reading this post, you now have people who can relate to you in the ones who preceded you and paved the way for the reality TV road you all are on now. Simply ask the first generation of Real World castmates - including Heather B., Kevin, Tami, Rachel Campos and the couple of Judd & Pam Winick, and they'll tell you where they were when they found out that Pedro died. Now, a whole generation of you, the Real World/Challenge community, will now have someone to look up to as a hero, an inspiration and a guardian angel to everyone, and not just among you all, but in the broader world who might not have seen an episode of these shows but was brought to it by that great story, just as it was with Pedro twenty years ago.
   And also because of my family having dealt three times this year with people passing away -- the matriarch of my extended family, my grandma earlier this summer and both of my family dogs being put down, again to the MTV family we know exactly what you are all going through right now, and we've been through it a lot this year after so many years of stability in my family. There's no feeling that has a profound impact on peoples' lives than dealing with a death either in the family or a close loved one. It touches everyone's live in ways that words and visuals simply cannot express.

The reaction to Diem's passing that we've shown to you above - inside the Real World/Challenge bubble and outside of it - has been immediate, widespread and heartfelt. Usually, this community - the largest by far in Team MTV - is one that can be described as one dysfunctional family where some are friends, some are enemies and some are in the middle. But when you get to the very heart of it, this fraternity, with over 200 people in its coast-to-coast community and featuring people who were strangers one time who had never even met or worked together before doing these shows, has a bond that is just as strong as family and childhood & college friends in their inner circles. And Diem's passing has brought them all even closer together in a way we've not seen before in this age of social media, and not in an overall sense among the MTV/BMP family since the events of twenty years ago.
   On Friday and during this weekend, all of the castmates have taken time, and in some cases dropped their tension, to celebrate Diem and her life. The vast majority of the nearly 200-strong RW/Challenge community on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram, plus those from my new favorite show Are You The One?, Jersey Shore and other MTV shows who might've crossed paths with her, and of course fans, viewers and distinguished people, shared their grief and reflected on their memories of Diem. From seeing one of the twitter accounts of one of those castmates who follow me, they even set aside a twitter beef that took place during The Challenge: Free Agents earlier this year and even re-tweeted a post from the person they were feuding with. And another who was also at odds with that person during one of their seasons also re-tweeted a post from them. Those signs of solidarity represent how united this entire tight-knit family has been since the moment Diem passed away.
   And of course for me as a fan of the Real World/Challenge franchise almost since the beginning and someone who's developed a very strong rapport with a lot of the people both inside and outside the bubble - especially when a lot of the cast left me birthday wishes the day before, this has hit me hard. While there have been deaths in the MTV family since 1994, none have had a great impact on me than Diem. I had interacted with her a good amount on social media in the past year, from talking to her a few times to her liking several of my posts on both Twitter and Instagram. When I first found out about the news at lunchtime, my jaw dropped and, I will admit, I nearly shed a tear, though I was still shocked and sad while still maintaining my composure. It was one of those moments that, as a longtime MTV fan since back in high school 15 years ago, really had a great impact on me.

As I wrote on my Instagram when I posted pictures of both of my family dogs and when my family gathered to say goodbye to who we all call Nanay, it's on days such as the one the MTV family experienced on Friday, November 14, 2014 that everything is put into perspective, and to come to the realization that there are some things that are bigger than others. And on that short list of those things that should always be given first priority, family is always on there.

   What has happened in the past few days has been unlike what I've seen and experienced in a long time. The Real World and Challenge family, as well as those outside of the bubble and fans like us, has had plenty of time since Friday morning to reflect and celebrate the life of their fallen comrade who fought a courageous battle and never gave up until the very end. And as many have written above, Diem Brown has become their definition of a warrior and a fighter.
   In my Rivals II postseason awards, there was no question who I would give the honor of Heart of a Lion to. Diem was the one in Thailand who didn't give up and was able to overcome adversity to perform her absolute best. With her great recovery from surviving ovarian cancer for a second time before flying to Asia, she was the one who brought that great number of casual viewers who didn't know who CT or others on the cast were to that great Challenge season and was the sentimental favorite of everyone that summer. Even after the heartbreaking loss in the last elimination jungle and missing out on the money, she was already a winner in everyone's eyes simply because of the journey she endured of going to the Exes final, being diagnosed, beating cancer and making a deep run to get there, and regardless of what happened in the house, gaining everyone's respect and great support.
   Diem will be to this generation of fans of The Real World & The Challenge what Pedro Zamora was to the first generation of those who grew up with the show many years ago: a great person who took advantage of living her life to its fullest, fought a courageous battle with so many people supporting her and, though passing away too soon, having & leaving behind an enduring & ever-lasting impact that transcended a reality TV franchise airing on a relatively-young cable TV channel targeted primarily to teens and young adults.

So, to Diem's family and close friends, stay strong and I send out my condolences to you all. To the MTV family, stay strong also and honor her memory. And to everyone who were touched by Diem and her story, stay strong as well, you now all have a guardian angel. And may god bless her soul.




And that is this Special Edition of DC SocialPulse. We thank you for reading and hope that you enjoyed this post full of reflection and perspective from family, friends, castmates, fans and me on the life of Diem Brown. And as is the case at other celebrity news websites which have been flooded in the past few days, DCBLOG invites you to share your thoughts and memories of her in the comment box that is open at the bottom of this post. As we close, here's a few reminders...

- Be sure to visit MedGift at www.medgift.com, which, as mentioned at the top of this post, is full of support pages and resources for those going through any experience related to medical or health issues and how to handle it from an emotional, physical and financial standpoint, as well as a first-of-its-kind working gift registry for patients. Also check out the support page created by Alicia Quarles at www.medgift.com/diemsnextchallenge which, starting after Diem was hospitalized, is pledging to raise $100,000 to cover the costs of the hospital bills of what was her last visit.

- On the night of Diem's passing, my fellow MTV fan, twitter follower and webcast host Andrew Kirk (@CSUAKirk) hosted a special edition of his Big Time Reality TV podcast on Blog Talk Radio where he reflected on Diem's life and Challenge career, and where regular caller David Olmann (@BigTymers228) shared his memories of meeting Diem earlier this year, for which we featured his picture of her in my DCSP post for EP2 of Real World Ex-Plosion. Listen to it now at the link below: www.blogtalkradio.com/bigtimerealitytv/2014/11/15/big-time-reality-tv-episode-5-rip-diem
- And of interest to MTV fans is Craze Watches, a line of customizable watches created by Jay of Real World Ex-Plosion originally as a way to help subsidize the costs of the medical bills of his late mom Lucy Mitchell, who passed away, also from cancer, during his season earlier this year. Visit www.crazewatches.com where users can purchase watches and where 10% of all orders will go directly to cancer foundations to help those who've been affected by it and support cancer research.



Stay tuned to DCBLOG for complete MTV coverage including the current season of Are You The One? in Puerto Rico, the upcoming 30th season of The Real World in Chicago, plus relive my coverage of Diem's Rivals II season and more. Follow all of my social platforms - Twitter @DC408Dxtr, Instagram @DC408Dxtr and DCNOW @DC408DxNow for tweets, chats, alerts, pictures and live tweets.

Again, thanks for reading and thanks for joining us. Rest in Peace Diem Brown.

- DC



All Posts from Cast Members Were Compiled from their Twitter, Instagram and Facebook accounts


UPDATES:
- Update 1: 11/19/14 to include additional quotes, including those from cast on US Weekly
http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/diem-browns-challenge-costars-remember-the-late-star-20141811
- Update 2: 11/19/14 to include CT's Instagram picture of Diem, located at the following link: http://instagram.com/p/vlrAYmNTA5/ 
- Update 3: 11/20/14 to include CT's 2nd Instagram picture (http://instagram.com/p/voCgkotTId)

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